Book Review - The Ladies Compartment

 Hello readers!

Sorry for being MIA for a long time..work was a little taxing these last few days.

Anyways,coming back..bought the e-book The Ladies Compartment this week.Penned by Parminder Kaur Sharma,it revolves around the lives of 5 women Vaidehi,Tarini,Bhavya,Ramma and Bhaumi.Ordinary women,extraordinary fights.Their stories encompass the struggles many women face unknown to the world.The stories are seen through the eyes of the ladies compartment they travel in every day hence the name.How they discover their power and their true purposes and break the social norms that try to clip their dreams is what this book is all about.

Overall,an okayish enjoying read for short  stories lovers.There is one thing though that actually touched my heart- The Introduction.The words actually motivate you to turn the pages.

"Har Nar Me Narayan 

Har Nari Me Lakshmi".

That's all folks!! Let me know what you are reading this week or any recommendations.Happy reading.

Birthday Ruminations !

Hi there! I love birthdays more than any other celebrations especially when it is mine..😂.

I had made a resolution to myself from the date I actually started celebrating my birthday : Cake or no cake, every year I would celebrate and enjoy this day whatever may be the circumstances and however old I may be. I will pull myself out of my bed that day and acknowledge every happiness I have been bestowed with. My close ones can vouch for this.

I learnt a lot this year, some beautiful life lessons.

• Life is not always a bed of roses. We all have our own share of ups and downs. The important point here is how you approach it.

• Do not judge people. They may be having their own troubles and asking them the same stupid questions only makes it harder for them.

• Do not fall into the "log kya kahenge" (what will society say") trap. Enjoy your days because they anyways do not have anything else in their extremely boring low life. Stay away from people who spread negativity.

• It is perfectly okay to be human and feel emotions. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Cry if you want to, feel happy at your own time.

• Life is not a race and it is completely okay if your wishes/goals/dreams do not match your planned timelines. Universe has its own plans , just keep up the hard work and efforts will bear fruits.

• The only thing standing between you and your goal is your will power. Running away from your obstacles will not make them disappear.

• Be grateful for all the good things you have. There are people around you in far worse situations. Reinspire yourself !

That's all folks. Here's to another year older with people who have always been there for me and never let me down!! Thank you for putting a smile to my lips every single day. Also, some shots of my lockdown birthday 😎

Love for Mangoes

 

                    

My Nani's Kheer(rice pudding)

Doi Kaatla(Fish made with curd)-My favourite

Clicking photos to remember this day

Me being me!!

Anger or forgiveness - Which one do you pick?

"The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury" - Marcus Aurelius

Anger, a very important emotion felt by every single one of us. Anyone who says he/she has never felt anger is definitely delusional. There is nothing to be guilty about, people around you will hurt you and anger is a very natural emotion to be felt during those times. In fact, emotions are what make us human. 

The only point to be kept in mind here is to not let the emotion get the better of you. Anger gives birth to some very wrong actions which you will regret later. Being angry is easier, I know. You want to teach them a lesson but then the cycle keeps repeating. They hurt you, you hurt them and the loop becomes endless.

So what to you do? Do you pick anger or forgiveness? The correct answer : You forgive. It is never easy and will never be.  You may not feel right about being the vulnerable one. But remember you are the bigger person here. Deep down you want to treat them as they did to you, but you don't. You do the opposite, you be the correct person here. Forgiving someone does not mean that the wrong doing was ok, but that you will not do the same mistake. It is even ok if you do not want to relate to the person in the same way as before. Redirect your anger into activities you are passionate about. It is more about finding your inner peace and letting go of all that hatred and resentment. The more idle you are, the more your conflicting thoughts will come back and the more difficult it will be to cope with your anger.

Let your actions denote your goodness and let karma do its work here. Forgiving someone may not be a very quick process and may take a toll on your patience and your self control. It is completely fine if you do not feel ready yet because the hurt and pain is just too unbearable. Take it one day, one step at a time.

P.S - This is not in any way a personal post, it is just one of my random thoughts.

My Small Nykaa Summer Haul!!

 Hello readers. Who here does not love online shopping? I am guilty, I do(Beauty products more than clothes). Nykaa had a summer sale and I got some things for myself. Lets check them out :

1) TRESemme Keratin Smooth Shampoo : Somehow I am not very consistent at my choice of shampoos. I mean I do not follow one for a very long time, and that way I know which suits me better. I got this shampoo after reading some very good reviews. I have just started using it and I am happy.(Actual Price : 245 INR , Sale Price : 196 INR)

 

2) TRESemme Keratin Smooth Deep Smoothing Mask : Ok, so I was using the Matrix hair spa tub before this and it was good. The only problem was that it was too big and I could not finish it before it expired. This time I wanted something else and this one too had good reviews and it was at a good price and the quantity was reasonable. I must say this is really good and my hair feels extremely smooth after use ,Not sure because I am using the same brand shampoo or not.(Actual Price : 600 INR , Sale Price : 420 INR)

 

3)MCaffeine Coffee Body Scrub : This is a long wanted buy, reason being every time I thought of buying this I would wonder what would I do with a body scrub? Shower gels are enough. This time though I could not resist , and I got one. Surprisingly Nykaa decided to thank me by sending me a free gift or rather 3 small ones.  I got sample sized packs of  the coffee face mask, coffee face wash and coffee face scrub. Talk about coffee overdose.😆😇

  Now on the products, the body scrub is heavenly (there is just no other word to describe the smell).I use it once a week and it does its job very well. There is a small wooden spoon for scooping the product so that you don't get your wet hands in the bottle.I used the mask also, but other than the smell, I did not like it much. It felt sticky and also was not spreading quite well like masks do. I did not use the facewash and face scrub yet.

(Actual Price : 449 INR , Sale Price : 395 INR)

 

4) Lux Velvet Touch Shower Gel : Lux was the first shower gel I was into when the shower gel craze started. It slowly got replaced by Nivea, Fiama and Palmolive later. This summer, I wanted to go back to Lux and must say it still is good. It smells nice ,does not dry out , has a decent price tag and comes with a free loofah.(Actual Price : 99 INR , Sale Price : 99 INR)

That's all folks! Did you buy any thing this summer? I would love to know more, please let me know in the comments.

7 Favourite Book Series From My Childhood!

I was a complete bookworm in my childhood. I read lots and read fast and read whenever I could. I would sometimes read in low light and thanks to that I became a proud owner of an extra pair of eyes aka my spectacles. My father got me a membership in the nearest library and it was like I got my hands on a whole new world. Nowadays, although Netflix has also taken up some of my attention but in no way can it replace my love for the paperbacks and eBooks. I have earlier reviewed some of my Netflix favourites and you can check that out here.

Sharing with you, 7 of the most loved book collections/series I read while growing up :

    

• The Nancy Drew Series(by Carolyn Keene) : An amazing teenage sleuth living in River Heights with her father Carson Drew and assisted in solving mysteries by her cousins Bess and George and her boyfriend Ned Nickerson.

• The Hardy Boys Series (by Franklin W. Dixon) : Two brothers Frank and Joe Hardy who also solve mysteries sometimes assisted by their friends.

• The Famous Five Series (by Enid Blyton) : The books revolve around the adventures of a group of 4 children and their dog.

• The Faraway Tree Series (by Enid Blyton) : The adventures of three children and an enchanted tree in a wood which takes them to magical lands.

• The Malory Towers Series (by Enid Blyton) : A series of stories on a girl's boarding school and the experiences of Darrell Rivers and later her sister Felicity Rivers.

• The St. Clare's series (by Enid Blyton) : Same as The Malory Towers, this series is on two sisters Pat and Isabel O Sullivan and their years in the boarding school of St. Clare's.

• The Wishing Chair Series (by Enid Blyton) : The flying adventures of siblings Peter and Mollie on their wishing chair which takes them to different magical lands.

Ah, so many happy memories came rushing back while writing this post. So, which one of these was your favourite? Do let me know in the comments below.

P.S The pictures are here are only one of the books in the collection and have been used only for reference. 

The Importance Of A "Thank You" !

 

        

Hello readers!! I watched a Bollywood movie this weekend "RamPrasad Ki Tehrvi" and some words of this beautiful movie struck me hard - Say your Thank you' s before it is too late.

Very true words, aren't they? The power of a simple thank you should never be underestimated. People very commonly will tell you "No thank you no sorry in a friendship" but it is ok to sometimes be grateful for what your friends and colleagues do for you even though small. Maybe I say it a lot more because a convent school imbibes that in you from the beginning but here too I am thankful for the learning.

Some actions automatically call for a Thank you..a present, a birthday wish, a compliment but some actions remain uncounted for. 

When you are down and need someone to listen to your woes, say Thank you to the listener.

When a customer care executive helps you out, say Thank you

When a sales person helps you shop, say Thank you.

When your waiter/waitress serves your food say Thank you.

Say Thank you to your delivery person, your mail man or any other person who makes an effort.

Most importantly say Thank you to your parents, to your family members. We all know they do not need it, but it does not take much of our time to acknowledge their efforts now and then. A sincere and heartfelt Thank you goes a long way. Material returns can never work the same magic as these two words of gratitude can do.

So, here I end with a thank you to all who take the time to go through my blog, and hope you have a great week ahead!!

10 shows you definitely must 'Netflix And Chill' !

Hello readers!! As truly written in my blogger profile details, I am an avid Netflix fan. There were months when I spent 800 INR because I could not find people to share with, but when I found like minded people there was no looking back.

I realize I am also a fan of lists so here is another one.10 Netflix shows/movies I recommend you should definitely watch if not yet seen.

1.The Queen's Gambit :The Story of chess prodigy Beth Harmon played by Anya Taylor Joy, and how she overcame her struggles and rose to become the queen in a game dominated by men in that era.(Seasons : 1)

2. Dead To Me : This tragedy cum comedy show marks the return of Christina Applegate , playing the angry yet grieving widow and her grief is marked with hints of sarcasm. Opposite to this is Linda Cardellini playing her sweet and always positive friend. A fun show of their friendship and a murder mystery.(Seasons : 2)

3.13 Reasons Why : A teenager, Hannah Baker, takes her life and leaves behind 13 tapes each pointing to individuals responsible. Heavy content, real life topics, yet emotionally unnerving as the seasons unfold.(Seasons : 4)

4. Ginny And Georgia : Smart and irresistible Georgia Miller, desperately wants to give her rebellious 15 year old daughter Virginia Miller a normal life in New England. But it is not all roses and very soon her past catches up and Georgia will go to any extent to save her family.(Seasons : 1)

5. Bridgerton : A superb period drama from the talented Shonda Rhimes ( producer of Grey's Anatomy and How To Get Away With Murder).Romance, drama, scandal all come together to make this a one of a kind show.(Seasons : 1)

6.Black Mirror : A sci-fi anthology series showing the dark side of modern day technologies and how our obsession with it is warping our sense of right and wrong. A thought provoking series with lingering after effects on what is the future turning out to be.(Seasons : 5)

7. Enola Holmes : A story on the teenage sister of Sherlock Holmes and her adventures on her mission to find her mother. Millie Bobby Brown is a delight o watch as she plays Enola Holmes whose sleuthing skills are almost at par with that of her brother Sherlock. Personally, I can never see anyone else as Sherlock but Benedict Cumberbatch , and the casting of Henry Cavill seemed quite different than what Sherlock Holmes is supposed to be. The star of course here is Millie.(Seasons : 0 , It is a movie)

8.The Irregulars : Again related to Sherlock Holmes, this is a British crime drama series on a group of teenagers known as The Irregulars who work or rather are manipulated to work for John Watson. The group lives together on the streets of London and encounter some supernatural occurrences on their search for Sherlock Holmes ultimately realize that all the happenings are related to him.(Seasons : 1)

9.Atypical : An amazing and refreshingly woven comedy drama on Sam Gardner, an autistic teen and his search for love, friendship and independence. It also brings forth the lives of each of his family member and how they grapple with all the changes in their lives along with Sam's. A feel good  family show  and quite different from the ones I normally watch.(Seasons : 3)

10.Pagglait : A hindi social drama movie, on the life of a recently widowed Sandhya and her discoveries on her late husband , Astik. Breaking down patriarchy, she turns this tragedy into an empowering beginning for her. Highlight of this movie is the music composed by Arijit Singh.(Seasons : 0 , It is a movie)

That's all folks!! My list may differ from yours so would love to know your choices and suggestions. The more to watch the better.

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